“Unbelievable”


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By: MFLOG
To: My fellow American leaders, especially those recently prosecuted and/or litigated against
I cannot believe that I have to bring up this topic, let alone write something about it. I cannot believe it has come down to this. Surely you have seen the news regarding all of the leaders in business, government, and elsewhere that are caught doing something unethical. Because of what I have seen, I feel compelled to tell you exactly what you are doing wrong, as well as how to stop it. I have been reading Susan B. Komives et al.’s Exploring Leadership, and its guidelines are just what you people need. I will use some examples found in the book that should prove useful.
It seems every other week or so, especially when CNN wants to spice up its ratings, they remind America that our leadership is crap. Lately, as it turns out, they’re generally right. Let’s not forget, they are only showing us the jackasses that were caught. Others are at least smart enough to get away with it, perhaps showing us some degree of respect by going to the trouble. Then again, they could just be lucky. Either way, I am embarrassed – for the both of us, to be clear – that the likes of me has to tell you people how to behave as leaders.
Why is this important (you may ask)? Come on, haven’t you heard of any of these people being thrown in prison left and right? Bernie Madoff will never again set foot on soil as a free man, all simply because he couldn’t behave himself. He was made famous for stealing many millions of dollars from his clients, some of whom committed suicide after they had lost everything. People like this embarrass and hurt themselves, their loved ones, and are even getting most or all of the things they stole (when it applies) taken away from them, almost always leaving them worse off then before. Let’s not forget those leaders in our society that have committed adultery, murder, and any number of immoral behaviors (Look up Gary Condit if you need an example of this). It is becoming evident that integrity – which is, in this case, always doing the right thing, especially when no one is looking – is becoming more and more important. With the possible consequences in store, leaders had better act with integrity at all times if they truly want to get ahead. At the very least, doing so should rid themselves of any worries about being incarcerated.
When I say “unethical”, I mean to convey any action of any kind – no matter how miniscule – that is in some way immoral and/or often illegal. For example, think of an action that you or someone else may have interpreted as illegal (even if you do not understand why). Let’s say the action in question is to be published in tomorrow’s news, to be seen by everyone you have ever cared about. If this possibility makes you uncomfortable because you risk being embarrassed, shamed, or thrown in prison, the action you are thinking of is probably unethical. If for some pathetic reason you still cannot tell whether or not you are being unethical, please take a look at some examples (all from Exploring Leadership) of behaviors/traits made by “toxic leaders,” or basically leaders who do wrongful things that can – and often do – destroy the very entity for which they work:
- Misleading followers through deliberate untruths and misdiagnoses of issues and problems
- Having insatiable that prompts leaders to put their own sustained power, glory, and fortunes above their followers’ well being
- Having an ego that does not allow you to see your own shortcomings and improve on them
- Having reckless disregard for the costs of their actions to others as well
- Having to think up of logical, morally sound excuses as to why you have done the above actions, if it applies
Now think hard. If you have ever done any of these things in any way throughout your life, read on (and skip the rest of this paragraph). If you have not, pat yourself on the back, then realize that you are a liar (a liar to yourself, at that) and you of all people need to continue reading. I’m not kidding, finish reading this. In fact, take notes. The future depends on it.
So now, it has been decided: You have a problem. Now I will guide you once again to Exploring Leadership to tell you what you do about it. In the book, the end of chapter six contains five ethical principles in decision making: autonomy, justice, beneficence, nonmaleficence, and fidelity. Since bad decision making is what gets people into trouble to begin with, this should help you get started.
Autonomy is the principle that addresses the concept of independence. The essence of this principle is allowing an individual the freedom of choice and action. The world will not end if your followers, for example, have the right to dispute (of course, always in a respectful manner) your instructions or policies. The world will not end if someone disagrees with you. On the contrary, any advice given to alleviate the problem at hand may lead to a beneficial outcome.
Nonmaleficence is the concept of not causing harm to others. This goes back to the golden rule, “Do not do to others what you would not like done to you.” If someone stole something from your loved ones, how would you feel? Now, how do you think others feel if you steal from them? If you need further incentive not to do wrong, remember that people will want to get even with you after you have offended them. Stealing, for example, can lead to a court settlement. More extreme examples can be the offended stealing from you in return, and the stolen goods can be anything from what you stole to, say, your life.
Beneficence reflects the leader’s responsibility to contribute to the welfare of the follower. It means promoting the interests of the organization and your followers above your self. This can include, you know, not stealing money from the company’s pension fund(s), as well as not fleeing the country after you have done so.
Justice refers to treating people fairly and equally. You need to treat your followers accordingly. This does not mean treat everyone the exact same. K.S. Kitchener points out in his book, The Counseling Psychologist, that the formal meaning of justice is, “treating equals equally and unequals unequally but in proportion to their relevant differences.” If you have two followers, one of whom is a better worker than the other. If the event arose, it would be just and fair to promote the more competent employee, even if the other one happens to be your golfing buddy.
Fidelity involves the notions of loyalty and faithfulness. In this case, this applies to everyone, to your followers, your equals, and your organization. It also includes honoring your commitments. An example of this is actually handing out the dividends after you have promised to do so, especially if people had bought you stock expecting this to happen. On that topic, it also means not submitting false documents to regulators in an effort to boost the stock’s profitability.
It’s not that hard to be ethical. Frankly, it can add many years to your life. As a leader, see if you can implement these into your work ethic. Who knows? You may actually benefit others and make them, including you, feel good. If you have never done this before, give it a try. You may surprise yourself.


During my freshmen year of college, I pledged for Beta Beta Gamma, a University of Hawaii-based sorority. Unlike nationally-based sororities, we did not have any membership dues to pay each month (stability). However, as sorority membership flourished, our finances that funded our events took a major hit. It was suggested that each member should pay semester dues and after analyzing the budget, the officers (myself included) decided that this was our best option. The Sisters were shocked by this decision (immobilization). Some argued that we never collected dues in the past and did not understand why they would need to pay any dues now (denial). A few Sisters even stated that they would be in-active if they would have to pay dues (anger). Likewise, some Sisters promised to participate more actively in fundraisers so that we would not have to have membership dues (bargaining). The officers stated that funds were needed at the beginning of each semester, which would require some sort of fundraiser during the summer and winter break. This was not ideal because many of the Sisters would not be on the island, and the group felt as though there were no other choice than to enforce the dues (depression). Thereafter, each Sister was required to pay a semester due. However, in order to cut the amount of the semester dues, we began planning for a big bake sale at the end of the semester (testing). The bake sale was a success and since then, we have continued to have a bake sale fundraiser each semester. While we are still required to pay a membership due each semester, the amount is manageable and the sorority is able to fund our events and socials (acceptance).
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